Boy oh boy..

You know ah…… I’m always on the lookout for signs. Signs which way my No.1 will be heading towards. I’m so weird la…instead of guiding him with his intelligence, I’m more worried of his emotional state.

See…a lot of times, this kid loves to play with cars. He’ll create scenes, roads, accidents, highways, bridges…and accidents. Then there are also a lot of times, he likes to play with his tea-set. Yes, this mother bought a cheap-ass plastic tea-set for him. He’ll be setting up picnics, having tea-parties, having a cookout (”I’m Mr. Chef now!”), asking me if I’d like to eat in his restaurant.

Then there are some times, when he takes out my vanity mirror (those lil pocket mirrors), stare into it….and exclaim how pretty he is.

Okayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy…….

I normally just leave it..but I’m worried. Which way is this boy going? Will he be asexual? Ok..that I can deal with. Will he be gay? Ok..that I can deal with. Will he be bisexual? Ok..that I might not be able to deal with. How am I going to greet his boyfriend, knowing that he too has girlfriends?

Sigh….

Then yesterday, he saw “Power Rangers” on TV3 and shouted, “OOOOOOOOOOOOO… yea…………………..WHACK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! SHOOT SHOOT SHOOT!”

He was cheering for the evil errr..dino-monster-robot thingy. He wanted that thingy to destroy the city.

Ahhhh…………. he’s definitely growing up to be some-what of a mystery to me. Perhaps I shouldn’t even think too much about it. I will get back to you all on these thoughts, in oh.. 20 years time. Think by then, he would have figured out himself, by himself.

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Mon, September 17 2007 » Parenting

9 Responses

  1. eastcoastlife September 17 2007 @ 10:52 pm

    aiyah, you worry too much. When my son was little, I brought him tea-set, pram and cooking set. I played housekeeping with him some more. I’m sure my son is growing to be a macho guy. :)
    Yes…I can see he’s quite macho…and very ‘kwai’ also!!!!

  2. Nomadic Mom September 17 2007 @ 11:18 pm

    Aiya…don’t worry lah. He still so young. My sons also got whole BIG box of masak-masak toys lah.

    PHEWWWWWWWWWWWWW!

  3. yenjai.net September 18 2007 @ 9:13 am

    You are really thinking too much :grin:
    What to do???? BORED!

  4. Shooi September 18 2007 @ 10:04 am

    hahaha…i think i agree with the rest of the mums. U worry too much.

    Yesterday, i was showing my boy my new mango lip balm. It has such a heavenly mango smell, and my boy just could not get enough of it and dabbed it on his mouth, nose…etc. Everything is an experiment to them.

    *grins* i think he wants to EAT IT!

  5. helen September 18 2007 @ 7:09 pm

    Hey, would you be more worried if your boy start stealing your lipstick to use? lol

    My boy is now 20. He’s going for those Gothic looks. KNow what, he borrows my eyeliner. I should be worried… lol

    Goth…. hopefully he won’t go Alice Cooper like…

  6. allyfeel September 19 2007 @ 1:19 am

    :lol: Haha..yawor Helen shld be more worried than u. kekeke!

    No worries la…my boy also lidat one, he likes to use my face brush to brush his own face also.

    Hee hee..I think it’s ticklish lah!

  7. jonzz September 19 2007 @ 9:45 pm

    No point to worry too much. You can only observe and guide on a situation-to-situation basis.

    oooOOoooo…. I guess. They’re fighting like pro-wrestlers now… sheesh!

  8. Sweetpea September 20 2007 @ 2:32 pm

    i don’t care wan lar. i’ll love him all the same, but it’s a taboo subject for my hubby!

    HAHAHAHHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAH!!!! Mine is quite ok with it..funny enough!

  9. The New Parent September 20 2007 @ 11:59 pm

    Hi M–my little one loves to play with tea set, dolls, painted toenails and … oh, she’s a girl (smile).

    Too much worry and too soon to be judging, eh?

    Guide with joy and watch him grow (smile).

    What? No trains,planes and automobiles?? Ha haa..just kidding. I know some girls LOVE to play with trains… ;-)

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